I Need Your Help

OK, so I know that you should be happy for those who have found love and happiness but, I am completely heart broken. The love of my life (well, OK, fine that is probably an exaggeration) is in love and happy with another woman. The twist in this love story is I have never actually met this man. I know, sad. I haven't had a crush this big since high school. He is funny, handsome, sexy, intelligent, and incredibly talented. I smile every time I see him, on the computer or movie screen (yes, he's an actor). Anyway, he is rumored to be dating this chick for the past 5-6 months and photos have been taken of them holding hands and now kissing! I just wanna cry! I hate that I feel this way, but I do. I want him all to myself! But I have to come to the realization that we will probably never meet and even if we did the likely hood of the two of us falling madly in love and living a long passion filled life together is practically nonexistent. How do you overcome an obession? Is there a 12 step program for this? You guys, i need help!!